tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post8652114525606962368..comments2023-07-08T06:51:27.962-07:00Comments on Raquel's World: Feeling Nothing....Kinda ScaryRaquel's Worldhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00901679946676181304noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post-1292364158957812212011-05-16T06:00:00.058-07:002011-05-16T06:00:00.058-07:00Well I had previously put a whole reply to everyon...Well I had previously put a whole reply to everyone on here but it disappeared???<br />So let me just say thanks guys for sharing and the advice. I took it all to heart.Raquel's Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00901679946676181304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post-49048563181872125142011-05-13T12:29:32.553-07:002011-05-13T12:29:32.553-07:00From personal experience I've felt such an ove...From personal experience I've felt such an overwhelming amount of emotions my body just shut down from feeling anything. It took a while for the feelings to come to surface. <br />We've all been through this type of emotion at some point in our lives. No worries, you'll get through it. Like all the others have said: Hugs 2U. Stay strong.Cocaine Princesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10512654768220278663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post-44907841644340507162011-05-12T05:56:20.899-07:002011-05-12T05:56:20.899-07:00Karen- :)
Lizbeth- But when you got past it....wh...Karen- :)<br /><br />Lizbeth- But when you got past it....what happened? Did you just resume life as normal or did you lose it for a minute?<br /><br />Peg- It prob would help, but being a mom I know that when I am struggling emotionally usually my kids are too, so leaving them alone right now since I never do would prob spook them. But boy wouldn't I love too!<br /><br />LET- That's something I've never tried. Trying to get into my senses and what a great time for it, being Spring and all. And thanks for the props b/c I cannot tell you the amount of times I wanted to jet off for a while and see how they handle it.<br /><br />Sandra-Thanks for sharing. I hope you are right.<br /><br />And to Everyone.....Awwww Thanks.Raquel's Worldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00901679946676181304noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post-38518573707278278102011-05-11T14:20:25.173-07:002011-05-11T14:20:25.173-07:00I've been where you're at. For me, feeling...I've been where you're at. For me, feeling nothing was not because I was on the edge of a nervous breakdown. It was because I truly had had enough. Rejoice. You're finally free. Get through this last bit as best you can, but know you are NOT falling apart. You're finally picking yourself back up.Sandrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09894333322881236627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post-85802072399522075922011-05-11T12:20:38.327-07:002011-05-11T12:20:38.327-07:00It sounds like you made the decision at some level...It sounds like you made the decision at some level long ago. This is just the follow through. Good for you for knowing when to move on. You'll find joy again. <br /><br />Once, when I was really low and felt like I was sort of numb, someone recommended I reconnect with my senses--smell the flowers, eat delicious food and focus on the flavors, etc. It was good advice. It got me tapped into basic appreciation and connected with myself again. You might try it.<br /><br />Can I just say how admirable it is that you didn't leave him with the kids and just walk away. I would have been tempted--just to see whether he'd step up--but it wouldn't be fair to the kids.lacochran's evil twinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00830374402474261699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post-16654003763512870232011-05-11T09:38:37.131-07:002011-05-11T09:38:37.131-07:00I think you have so many balls in the air that you...I think you have so many balls in the air that you may need to not feel right now. Do you think if you had a free weekend - no kids and could run away you would think/feel differently?<br />I don't know. <br /><br />I do think this shows you were so ready to be treated well and without the drama. And let's look at that like a positive. :-)<br /><br />Hugs<br />P.Margaret (Peggy or Peg too)https://www.blogger.com/profile/04247428494327269983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post-27147781387970140252011-05-11T08:40:35.945-07:002011-05-11T08:40:35.945-07:00Yup, felt like this...like the dam's going to ...Yup, felt like this...like the dam's going to break but it's not quite there yet....hugs to you.Lizbethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03449627964374811836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7826977458991854551.post-26608759059203575932011-05-11T08:19:05.166-07:002011-05-11T08:19:05.166-07:00In general I tend to be hyper-emotional (aka drama...In general I tend to be hyper-emotional (aka drama queen) so I don't think I have ever had that numb feeling. I hope that it passes easily and you don't have to go through a breakdown to start building back up. Maybe it was just time for him to be gone.Karenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14978375225313974459noreply@blogger.com